The door

Choose how much attention you want.

Three monthly keys to the same club. The difference is frequency, priority, and how personal it gets. Obsessed is a membership name, not a personality disorder, and not permission to be controlling.

Casual Attention

$19 / month

Easygoing attention. No pressure. A few notes a week and a key to the lounge.

  • Two personalized messages each week
  • Occasional good-morning or goodnight messages
  • Access to the members-only Clubhouse
  • Access to general content drops
  • Ability to purchase personalized extras
Join Casual Attention

Obsessed

$99 / month

Premium attention, kept playful. Daily-ish check-ins, letters, voice notes, first look at events.

  • Daily or near-daily personalized interaction
  • Personalized check-ins
  • Encouragement and attention
  • Priority messages
  • Voice notes
  • Personalized letters
  • Exclusive content
  • Premium access to club events
  • Preferred access to custom requests
Join Obsessed

What we ask at checkout

Nickname, favorite girl, tone, interests, topics to skip, and any dates you want remembered. That is it. Skip anything that feels too personal.

After you join, the Clubhouse opens. Extras and letter packs are there when you want a little more. You never have to buy them to belong.

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